Crying is my necessity

          Bismillahirrohmanirrohim ...

          Do you often cry?? How often do you cry in a week or in a month? Or maybe you are seldom to cry. Hmm .. We usually cry in many situations. Such as when we have problems, get a bad mark, being mad from parent or even in a happy situation. Just like everybody, I also crying most of those situations. But, maybe I cry more often than you do. At least, once a week. I don’t know why. But, crying is just like my NECESSITY. Do you think that it is normal if crying become one of my necessity ? 

Sometimes, I feel so bad if i am not cry. Crying makes me relief. I am crying for many reasons. And, something that a little bit different, if I eat the very spicy food, i would cry. The tears just drop on my face. It is not like people in common that usually sweaty if they eat the very spicy food. That’s the first!

Second, I am crying when I feel guilty, sometimes. Then, I also crying when i get many problems. In this situation, I would cry whenever I’d like to and do not care about the place and the time (In the bedroom, bathroom, at the minibus in front of everybody, in the class, in the internet cafe, in the market or mall or even when walking). I really can’t hold my tears if I am really in a serious problem. I also often cry and then try to smile :)

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          Next, I also cry if I got something that really precious. When I am happy because of something, then i am crying. Crying is complete my heart when I feel happy. When I can’t get angry of someone and too tired because of my friends behavior, I come back to cry. In this case, sometimes I hide my tears from my friends because I don’t want to hurt them and then perforce myself to tell the truth about them.  

Fifth, I also cry if there is a touchy video, movie, story and so on. Just like what I revealed, it is easy for me to cry.

          The last one, when I am too happy or maybe just in a regular mood, I also feel that there is something is missing before i am crying. At least, I have to drop just one tear. But, crying does not mean spoiled, right?

You know, as a result, sometimes.. where there is such kind of “Muhasabah”, i do not cry and can’t cry because I have cry before. :D

* actually .. I am afraid to tell all about these, because I don’t want to loose my tears :)

 

Here, I also want to shared you about some facts of crying :)

1.     The term crying commonly refers to the act of shedding tears as a response to an emotional state in humans.

2.     70% of criers make no attempt to hide their crying.

3.     20% of bouts of crying last longer than 30 minutes.

4.     8% go on for longer than one hour.

5.     Tears are the liquid product of a process of crying to clean and lubricate the eye

6.     39% of crying occurs in the evening, the most popular time compared with morning, afternoon, and night (16, 29 and 17 per cent respectively).

7. The word lacrimation (from L. Lacrima meaning Tear) (also spelled lachrymation) may also be used in a medical or literary sense to refer to crying.

8.     77% of crying takes place at home.

9.     15% at work or in the car.

10.   The act of crying has been defined as "a complex secretomotor phenomenon characterized by the shedding of tears from the lacrimal apparatus, without any irritation of the ocular structures"

11.   40% of people weep alone.

12.   88.8% feel better after a cry.

13.  The process of yawning may also result in lacrimation.

14.   6-8pm is the most common time for crying.

15.  7: annual number of crying episodes for a man.

16.    47: average number of times a woman cries each year.

17.  Although most land mammals have a lacrimation system to keep their eyes moist and in response to other stimuli, humans are the only mammal generally accepted to cry emotional tears.